5 Best Ways To Love

Love is expressed as an action and experienced as a feeling. So here it is Love tips for lovers. Yet, love has an essence that resists defining in any single way — it encompasses compassion, determination, tolerance, endurance, support, faith, and much more. If you're in the dark about how to love, this article should give you some food for thought, and perhaps teach you a little bit about how to love yourself, love the world, and love other people just a little bit more.

1. Accept your past:

If you've been hurt in the past, you really need to begin to cope with that feeling before you can love someone else. You may feel that things you did in the past will make you unlovable, or that you have too many problems to be lovable. Maybe you feel that because your past relationships failed, all others are doomed to fail as well. But this is not the case and you should never feel for a moment that what has happened to you before will keep you from being happy now. Accept the things that happened to you, forgive, and move on.

2.Get rid of the list

You know the list: that compendium of requirements that a potential partner or friend must meet, kept in your head or even written down. Yeah, get rid of that. Recognize that by keeping such a list, you’re creating the person you want to be with, rather than meeting the person you’re meant to be with. Real people don’t fit in boxes. You can certainly keep in mind qualities that you want a person to have, but don’t require someone to meet all of them and make sure you've got your priorities in order.

3.Reconsider your priorities

If you’re putting a nice butt before a stable personality, you’re going to have a really tough time in relationships. Same goes for things like valuing friends who get you into the best clubs over friends who’ll hold your hair back while you puke. Take those items from your list (discussed above) and separate them out into wants vs needs. Then take a hard look at why you prioritize the things you do.

4. Open yourself to new possibilities

Once you've given some hard thought to what really matters to you in your relationships, take another look at the people around you and the people that you meet every day. Maybe people you’d previously dismissed will suddenly seem okay. You’ll find...potential. And that’s all you need to start with. Potential may not feel like love at first sight, but it can grow into the most beautiful and stable love you’ve experienced.

5. Love yourself

Before loving anyone else, you have to love yourself. This is important on so many levels. It will show you how to experience love, it will send a message to people you love that you are worth loving in return, and it will make you a better lover because you will not be hindered by self-doubt and confidence issues.

• If you have problems loving yourself, then change yourself. Build your self confidence by doing something wonderful and being a better person. Conquer all of your bad habits that make you self-conscious. Just don’t expect to make yourself into the perfect person, because perfect people do not exist.

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What is Love? Definition of True Love

Poets and authors have tried to define love for centuries, whereas scientists have only recently started. Many of us know intuitively that love is a major purpose for living; that connection is inherent in all that we do, and without love, we cannot survive as a species.

But what is love, and how do we know when we're in it? First, let's start off with what love isn't.

What Is Love? It Definitely Isn't...

• Manipulation. "If you loved me, then you would..." isn't love, but rather infatuation.
  
• Compromising who you are. If someone asks you to do or say something that isn't in your nature, that isn't true love. Although love does involve compromises between partners, someone who is in love with you will never ask you to change who you are in order to be loved.
  
• Violent. Passions can definitely become inflamed with someone you love, but a relationship with physical or emotional violence isn't true love.
  
• Just lust. Yes, chemistry and physical attraction are important, but true love also includes commitment, trust and respect.

So then, what exactly is love?

True Love Is...

• True Love is Caring. The ancient Greeks had many different names for different forms of love: passion, virtuous, affection for the family, desire, and general affection. But no matter how love is defined, they all hold a common trait: caring.
  
• True Love is Attractive. Attraction and chemistry form the bond that allows people to mate. Without this romantic desire for another individual, a relationship is nothing more than lust or infatuation.
  
• True Love is Attached. Like the mother-child bond, attachment comes after the initial attraction. Attachment is the long term love that appears anywhere from one to three years into a romantic relationship (sometimes sooner and very rarely after), and you'll know you've found it when you can honestly say, "I've seen the worst and the best you have to offer, and I still love you," while your partner feels the same way.
  
• True Love is Committed. When it comes to true love, commitment is more than just monogamy. Its the knowledge that your partner cares for you and has your back, no matter what the circumstances. People who are strongly committed to one another will, when faced with seemingly negative information about their partner, see only the positive. For example, a friend comments that your partner doesn't say a lot. "Ah yes, he's the strong, silent type," you reply. People with less commitment to their partner would instead say something like, "Yeah, I can never have conversation with him. Its annoying."
  
• True Love is Intimate. Intimacy is a crucial component of all relationships, regardless of their nature. In order to know another, you need to share parts of yourself. This self-revealing behaviour, when reciprocated, forms an emotional bond. Over time this bond strengthens and even evolves, so that two people merge closer and closer together. Intimacy by itself if is a great friendship, but compiled with the other things in this list, it forms an equation for true love.

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13 Signs of Falling In love

Love is a awesome feeling and many Poets and authors have tried to define love for centuries, whereas scientists have only recently started. Many of us know intuitively that love is a major purpose for living; that connection is inherent in all that we do, and without love, we cannot survive as a species.

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Very Romantic SMS For Your Love

My heart 2 U is given:

ØH, do give urs 2 me;

We'll lock them up together,

& throw away D key.

Love... I want to hold you close to me and feel our hearts beat as one forever.

If you believe perfection simply isn’t real, Kiss your love in the rain, Many things in this world can wash away pain, But none of them compare, to kiss in the rain.

I want U 2 miss me wen U think of me,

kiss me wen I'm there.

Hold me like I'm you're everything,

twiddle your fingers in my hair.

Romantic sms for wife-

The Full Form of Chocolate Brand :

KITKAT – Kiss in Time, Kiss at Time

PERK – Perfect Emotional Romantic Kiss

MUNCH – Meet Urgently Now for a Charming Hug! So think before giving chocolate to any one.

:: Romantic sms for wife ::

So kiss me and smile for me

Tell me that you'll wait for me

Hold me like you'll never let me go

Cause I'm leavin' on a jet plane

Don't know when I'll be back again

I want 2 be surrounded by U always, day & night.

URs hugs bring strength unknown.

Ur smiles bring sunshine 2 brighten my mood

U r voice tells tales 2 sooth my restless soul

U r whisper says I love U never let me go.

I search 4 U every chance I get,

I always wish 2 see your face.

If I could touch your lips wid mine,

D thought of tis is so divine.

I want 2 feel U, touch, and kiss,

send U into a heavenly bliss,

I want U , need U, love U, sweetie

New romantic sms-

Nver ask 4 a kiss, just take it.

Nver ask 4 a hug, just give it.

Nver ask do u Luv me? Say I Luv u.

Nver say I can't live without u, say I live for U

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Beautiful Shayari For Your Girlfriend or Boyfriend

Jis Tarah Ragon Mai Khoon Rahta Hai

Is Tarah Eri Chahat Ka Junoon Rehta Hai

Zindagi Ki Har Kushi Mansoob Hai Tum Se

Baat Ho Tum Se Tu Dil Ko Sukoon Rehta Hai…

Tumhara dukh hum seh nahi sakte,
Bhari mehfil mein kuch keh nahi sakte,
Hamare girte hue aansuo ko pad kar dekho,
Woh bhi kehte hai ke hum aapke bin reh nahi sakte…

Pyaar ki aanch se to patthar bhi pighal jata hai,
Sache dil se sath de to naseeb bhi badal jata hai,
Pyaar ki rahon par mil jaye sacha hamsafar,
To kitna bhi gira hua insaan bhi sambhal jata hai……

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