What is the meaning of falling in Love

Meaning of falling Love

In romantic relationships, falling in love is mainly a western concept of moving from a feeling of neutrality towards a person to one of love. The use of the term "fall" means that the process is in some way uncontrollable, risky, irreversible, and that it puts the lover in a state of vulnerability. The term is generally used to describe an (eventual) love that is strong.

Sociobiologists point to the preeminence of heart over head at such crucial moments. Bonding with a mate "suggest that 'the answer to why we fall in love encompasses, complex neurochemical processes that occur in our brains when we are attracted to another person' and 'tell us that when we fall in love we are falling into a stream of naturally occurring amphetamines running through the emotional centers of our very own brains'.

Love is largely self-generated and falling in love a "process Stendhal calls crystallization....Before you fall in love, you see the other person as a bare branch; as you fall, you coat him or her with jeweled attractions about 80 percent of your own making".

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Why God Made Friends : Sweet poem for friends

Why God Made Friends

 

God made the world with a heart full of love,

Then He looked down from Heaven above,

And saw that we all need a helping hand,

Someone to share with, who'll understand.

He made special people to see us through

The glad times and the sad times, too;

A person on whom we can always depend,

Someone we can call a friend.

God made friends so we'll carry a part

Of His perfect love in all our hearts.

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Romantic poem for your girlfriend

Your Arms Around Me

Put your arms around me,
Hold me just like this,
Cover me with love,
So much I don’t exist,

Heal me far from pain,
Start long before you end,
Give me reasons to believe,
We should let this love ascend,

Free me from my worries,
Obliterate my doubt,
Leave the past behind,
And seek the future out,

Go beyond your limit,
(We’ll pass the others by),
And make love part of history,
That no one can defy,

So, put your arms around me,
Let our hearts demure,
Hold me for as long as you can,
And let this love endure,

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Some of Romantic messages

Romantic Messages

1. I could search my whole life through and through an never find another you.
   
2. I love my life because it gave me you
   I love you because you are my life
   
3. They say you only fall in love once, but that can't be true... Every time I look at you, I fall in love all over again.
   
4. When I first saw you, you took my breath away.
   When you first talked to me, I couldn't think.
   When you asked me out, I couldn't respond.
   When you touched me, I got shivers all through my body.
   And when we first kissed, I floated away in my dreams.
   
5. Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control.
   
6. I asked God for a minute and he gave me a day.
   I asked God for a flower and he gave me a bouquet.
   I asked God for love and he gave me that too.
   I asked God for an angel and he gave me you!
   
7. Last night I looked up at the stars
   And matched each one with a reason why I love you
   I was doing great, but then I ran out of stars

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Love poem: That's why I Love You

Why I Love You

You give to me hope
And help me to cope
When life pulls me down
You bring me around

You teach me to care
And help me to share
You make me honest
With kindness the best

From you I learned love
With grace from above
It's for you I live
And I want to give

You are the reason
That fills each season
When I hear love I think of you
You are my world and best friend too

I love you because you are so kind, thoughtful and caring
I love you because you are so pleasant, lovely and sharing

You made me the man I am
Thank you

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Kiss Of My Love poem for lovers

Kiss Of My Love

Your beauty overwhelms me
As I wrap my arms around you
I press your softness tight
Great passion fills my inner being
I'm captured in your embrace
Your eyes control my very soul
The touch of your lips, heaven
Forever frozen in time
All else fades into nothing

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Shayari for shayari lovers

Paraayeon Se Dosti Ki Gunzaaish Nahi Hoti,

Marne Ke Baad Koi Khawaish Nahi Hoti,

Kahi Koi Pyar Bhara Dil Toota Hoga Zaroor,

Nahi Toh Naino Se Aansuo Ki Barish Nahi Hoti!

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For the Shayri Lovers

Bahot Sukoon Milta Hain,
Sachhe Pyar Mein!


Poori Duniya Simat Jaati Hain,
Apne Hi Yaar Mein!!

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How to get a girl for a date

Today I m going to tell you that "HOW TO GET A GIRL FOR DATE" 

Have you noticed a cute girl at work but wondered how you could get a date with that girl? Are you just not sure how to pick up a girl? Here are some steps to help you. 

1. Go where Girls are: That sounds simplistic. Really? But to Pick up a girl, You obviously has to be around other people in various places including: Bars, Park, Cafe, College Canteen, mall, restaurant and many more.
   
   
2. Ask for help: Put it out there. Tell all the older people at work and in your community "What I'd really like is to find a nice girl and settle down." If they find someone for you, get them to host a family dinner with you and the beau/belle as additional guests. You'd be amazed how helpful parents and their networks can be with this kind of thing. Referrals from family or friends are really worth looking at - if your uncle invites you to dinner to meet his new co-worker, it's likely he might have a clue in selecting someone appropriate.
   
   
   
3. Don't be put off by a divorce:  Often people come into the singles "market" after a divorce or breakup of a long term relationship. One divorce shows someone who has had good experience with relationships and the successes and failures. Five divorces of course means something else!
   
   
4. Pop the question: If you talk enough and become good friends with them, then they'll be more interested in you than if you didn't talk to them at all. Then, say something like "Well, I really would like to get to know you. You seem like a really interesting person, so I was wondering if you'd like to go to the movies on Friday night?" This is simply a guideline but you should actually have something worked out to say so you don't fumble for the words.
   
   
5. Follow through: Don't play games and stand up your date. Use the phone number if something happens, and you have to change plans.

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